Cherished Belonging: The Healing Power of Love in Divided Times

The book's essential premise is that people who are causing harm must be in some way unwell. Without excusing or condoning bad behaviors, this text gives some great examples and tools for thinking about and trying to help others. The author, Father Boyle, does walk the walk and writes from extensive experience.

You can bet that book written by father Greg Boyle it’s going to be a page turner. Father Greg is deep, yet down to earth, funny one minute, and tears the next. I can’t recommend this book enough in these troubled times.

I've read all of Fr. Boyle's books. He's one of my heroes, someone I want to be more like, and I'm Buddhist :-). This book is a wonderful and effective integration of Homeboy stories, where he comes from spiritually ("Everyone is unshakably good.") and the psychological and spiritual things they do at Homeboy Industries (cherish everyone) that helps so many people become Love. Being held that way heals them and it could could heal us all.

I am a longtime fan of Father Greg Boyle, so it is no surprise that I picked up the audiobook for "Cherished Belonging" as soon as I could. He is one of the few authors that I need to both hear and read on the page, so not long after listening to the book, I bought a hard copy. The premise of this book is simply that eveyone is unshakably good and that we all belong to one another, no exceptions. Moreover, Father Greg boldly, humbly, and eloquently states that embracing this view is sufficient to redress many intricate social dilemmas. He then proceeds to show how that has played out during his decades of guiding gang members in East Los Angeles to another way of being in the world, using stories from his interactions with the community that shapes itself around Homeboy Industires, and his own insights. Reading this man, listening to him, is powerful. He is not a fool who does not see things as they are. In fact, he seems to be a sage who sees things just as they are, no matter how they may appear on the surface. It is to have the company of a magnificent man, one who feels like a true bodhisattva, to take a page from my own Buddhist frame of reference, untiringly being in the midst of the world without getting weighed down by it. Every minute I spend taking in his words is rewarded many times over by the tenderness and wisdom they transmit. This may be my favorite of his books yet, for its ability to portray the immensity and the heartbreak of this priceless life. Highest recommendation.

Wonderful inspiring book. A joy to read . I have learned so much from this book. Homeboy industries seems to be a fantastic lifesaver. We need many of these organizations all around the country. Unfortunately there are not too many Father Boyles. He is amazing. He gets it right. I❤️

Wow! A message of hope for us all. A proven way to effective inhabit this planet together.

Boyle makes a lot of sense. It helps to remember that as we live in the complexity of the world we can learn to see more clearly the essence of goodness around us. Being present pushes fear out and makes space for humor, healthier connection and positive expansion.

Each book Gregory Boyle writes gets better and better. I love them all, and I was so happy when I learned this book was coming out. So I pre-ordered it, and felt like it was truly God-sent when I opened an Amazon box to find it on election night. Drawing from his three decades of experience with Homeboy Industries, Boyle presents a compelling vision of community and healing, rooted in the belief that every person is unshakably good and we all belong to each other. Through colorful anecdotes and wisdom from former gang members, Boyle challenges readers to see the world through a lens of love and practice radical kindness as a defiance against societal divisions. His intimate and vulnerable voice adds depth to the narrative, creating a sense of personal connection with the reader. "Cherished Belonging" is not just a book but a call to action, inspiring readers to nurture connections and see the inherent goodness in all people, offering a compassionate way forward in our current times. I can’t recommend it enough! Just what I needed. I also ordered it on Audible, so I can listen to Father Greg read it. Even more powerful to listen to him read his books. I will continue to re-read and re-listen to “Cherished Belonging” as a guide to navigating these times we are living through.

Reading Fr. G's is like going on a religious retreat. One can't help but be transformed by the expansive view of love and kinship that erases boundaries. If you like the book, do yourself a favor and visit Homeboy Industries. It truly is holy ground. Fr. G challenges us to broaden our understanding of God. If this message became universally embraced, as G says 'we wouldn't be preaching justice, we would be celebrating it.'